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    Hello ladies! I'm 35 years old. I faced the problem of infertility. I want to share my story with you and ask for help, for advice, for anything, which can help me to solve my problem. This is my last chance, cry from my heart. I want to be happy, want to give happiness to my husband. We have always been dreaming about children. We have been together for 12 years already, and all this time we've been trying to conceive a baby. 3 years ago we made it and we were over the moon. We thought that finally our prayers were heard. But our happiness lasted not for long. My stomach hurt, aching pain felt in the thigh, plus nausea and dizziness. The doctor told me that all these are normal for pregnant woman and I have no reasons to worry about. Later, the pain became unbearable, and it turned out that I had suffered from internal bleeding, which doctors have not diagnosed in time. So on the seventh month of pregnancy placental abruption occurred. Doctors had to remove the fetus along with the uterus. This loss knocked down both of us. We yearned for a long time. We are still not really recovered from our loss. But we decided not to stop. We want to have children and happy family very much. We are thinking to try surrogacy, but it is forbidden in our country. But my husband and I are very serious about it, this is our last chance! I really beg you to suggest, maybe someone faced and knows, in which countries surrogacy is allowed, which clinics are better to address. I will be very grateful for any information!

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    Hi,

    i am very sorry about your situation and I admire your will not to stop. Surrogacy is the last stage, if there is no way out. I would suggest to go to the egg bank in Belgium. First Egg Bank is the largest and trusted egg donor bank in Europe. This clinic has very good reviews and helped a lot to the becoming parents. You can contact them on their site and they will get back to shortly. Donor Egg Bank. Find Egg Donors Now - First Egg Bank here you will find them. Wishing you a lot of luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sofiamanuela View Post
    Hi,

    i am very sorry about your situation and I admire your will not to stop. Surrogacy is the last stage, if there is no way out. I would suggest to go to the ivf clinic in Belgium. First Egg Bank clinic is the largest and trusted egg donor bank in Europe. This clinic has very good reviews and helped a lot to the becoming parents. You can contact them on their site and they will get back to shortly. Donor Egg Bank. Find Egg Donors Now - First Egg Bank here you will find them. Wishing you a lot of luck!
    Thank you so much for responding to my thread! I'm so glad to see someone else's comment here. I appreciate your support. I really need to talk to someone now. I feel like I'm trapped and lost. This is really hard to keep going after our loss. It seems to me like I need to avoid everyone. Because everyone have kids and everyone is talking about them. And the worst thing is they asking me why I don't have children. This is really exhausting. When I think that I might never have children I get panic attack. It scares me to death! I can't imagine life being childless not by choice. I'm scared to believe that maybe I won't ever have children. And I think this is the main problem which doesn't let me to leave and enjoy life. Thinking about surrogacy gives me hope. It's like a fresh gulp of the air. Though I'm scared to believe that it will work for us 100%, but I feel alive for the first time in a really long time.

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    Hello everyone who is following my thread! My search is on a break now. The reason of it is my depressed condition. A couple of days ago I went to hang out with my friends. I decided to give myself a break from my thoughts about our loss, my infertility and other stuff we're facing now. So I met with a couple of my friends and we went to a restaurant. At first everything was perfect. We shared some news, remembered our youth. We were laughing and talking. In one word we we're doing everything that usually old friends do when they meet after a long break. But then they started a discussion which I was afraid of the most. They started to talk about their kids. I was just sitting there, drinking my juice in silence. I really didn't know what to say. Actually I had nothing to say. I don't have kids and unfortunately Id never experienced motherhood. After they noticed that my mood changed they were looking at me with such a pity. And it broke my heart. I told them I feel sick and I went home. When I drove to my house I was sitting in my car crying for more than an hour. I knew they will rise this topic and actually there were such situations before. But I promised myself I will be strong this time and I won't let infertility to prevent me enjoy this evening. Unfortunately I didn't fulfill my promise. And the next day my friends were calling and texting me to ask how I feel. I'm sure they know the actual reason why I left. I know they want to support me and they didn't mean to hurt my feelings. But it sucks when they feel sorry for me. I hate this feeling. I dream to start my journey. More than anything else I want to have a baby. I want to start living and never ever face situations when infertility just ruins everything. I'm really sorry for this long and maybe boring post. I hope there is someone who knows what I'm talking about. I would really love to talk to you.

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    Hello! I can say that I am familiar with your situation. Our family has had the same problem. My brother, Harry and his wife really wanted children, but she couldn't have them. So, their problems soon began. She caught himNude Celebrities – Pics and Videos | NudeBase.com. I think you can imagine what happened next. We're all very worried about them. Harry braced himself. Finaly, he decided it was time to act. They appealed to the clinic surrogacy. Now they are happy parents.

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    Excuse me! May my story, too, wasn't the shortest, but I tried to support you this way!

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    I was very happy to support you and just wanted to let you know that you are not the only one who is struggling with it. There is not need for panic. I am very sure that Intersono would be able to help with it. They have great and very reliable doctors. Do not make crazy yourself, everything will be fine

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    If you decide to use donor eggs, ask your fertility clinic if they have available donors that they have already screened. Because some clinics have long waiting lists, you may prefer to find a donor through one of many egg donor agencies and registries. Some people place ads for donors in college newspapers or other publications that young women read. Finding a donor yourself can be faster than going through a busy clinic, but there is a serious disadvantage: You will have to interview the donor yourself rather than having a professional screen and evaluate her. It's crucial that donors be tested for any genetic disorders or diseases such as HIV. This is also true for women using donor sperm. Egg donor programs vary in their requirements, but most conduct extensive screening and provide you with detailed information about the medical history, background, and education of the donor. An egg donor contract that explicitly spells out the terms of any future relationship should always be used, even when the donor is a close friend or relative.

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    Hi Noreen,

    I agree witrh you. Have come across some of the web pages and forum regarding donation offers and at some point I got a feeling that people are after money. I know that clinics should have their catalogue of donors, in the First Egg Bank they have one which includes approx 250 different donors and the have been already tested. I cannot say the same about other donor banks. Apart from it, if a patient would like to know who exactly a donor is, for extra charge it would be possible.

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