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    A close relative lost and their 2 kids, between ages 0-2. They are in foster care & looking for an adoptive family. I know the chances of them being adopted together are very low (They already mentioned separating them) & even separated they could still be in the system for years before being adopted. Ive seen first hand how terrible it all can be & do not want these sweet kids to have to go through that. My husband & I would love to adopt them but we already have 1,3 and 5 year old toddler boys. I have had all 5 of them together quite often & besides small arguments between the youngest 2 girls & my 3 year old they generally get along well.

    A few issues I am worried about are:

    • The chance that they might endanger my toddlers - They are very sweet kids & their temperaments have improved dramatically since being in foster care but they have been somewhat aggressive in the past.
    • Space - We own a 3 bedroom home currently but are searching for a larger house. DHS said they may be able to make an exception since we are relatives. The girls would still have more space than they ever have before.

    My husband has a good job & we have good health insurance so financially we may need to be a little more frugal but it shouldn’t cause any problems. We have always wanted to adopt a sibling group but ideally younger than our biological children and once we have bought a larger house & farm. Are we crazy for wanting to do this? Do you think it would be a good or bad idea for our family?

    I would love to hear input especially from adoptive parents, adoptive siblings & adoptees!

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    Hello contact ( if you are interested in child adoption , My husband and I adopted from here privately . Thanks



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      It's wonderful that you're considering adopting your close relative's children! It sounds like you have a lot of love to give and a big heart. One suggestion would be to speak with a foster or adoption agency to get more information and support. They can provide you with helpful resources and answer any questions. It's important to ensure that your family is equipped to handle the challenges of adopting children in foster care. And if you need any further guidance, Foster Plus is a great resource to check out: Best of luck on your adoption journey!
      Last edited by schetchshow; 02-23-2023, 11:53 PM.